Sandra Tsing Loh wrote an article about why marriage is failing in this country and why her own marriage failed. She isnt the best person to take advice from because she cheated on her husband. So because her marriage didnt work out she thinks all marriages are doomed. Maybe if she worked on the marriage instead of cheating she would still be married. I havent been married and I dont have kids so maybe I will know where she is coming from in the future but right now it sounds like a selfish cheater who wants to be free so she can be more selfish.